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ARE YOU OKAY?
If you get tired, learn to rest, not quit!

Or ‘How Are You?’ - Three simple words which can mean everything in the hectic life we lead today. But how many of us answer this truthfully, how many fear being judged if they say they’re not okay? The answer is probably higher than we want to believe.
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In a time where mental health is topical I took a day’s sick leave this week because I wasn’t okay; something which I opened up about only to a few very close people.
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Those who have worked with me over the years know that not even ‘woman flu’ can keep me away from the office so for me to take a sick day is somewhat of a rarity. So what happened? Why now? Well the truth is I allowed a colleague’s unprofessional manner get to me.
Instead of brushing off the comments they made I allowed them to play over and over in my mind which made me question myself and my abilities leaving me feeling drained.
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Mental health not only affects the mind, it also affects your physical wellbeing. I have spent the last 2 years practicing a life of wellness through taking supplements, eating healthy, limiting my alcohol consumption and even working out. This works for me, this makes me happy but so does talking - something I didn’t realise until this week - I talked through my issues, I looked at the positives in my 12 year career (and there were a lot, not bigging up my ego or anything!) and realised that I should never have let those comments fester in my mind. I couldn’t have done that without my tribe, my network, my life team. Thank you!
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Xen was created due to my calm and organised approach when it comes to executing marketing strategy, a value which is core to the success of who I am today and all of my achievements. I manage my pressures in a way which doesn’t cause stress to anyone I work with and the secret to that is the team I have around me and the fact that we talk; talk about issues, talk about the small triumphs, talk about the detail, as well as day to day life. Communication and Teamwork will always be the key to success and a thriving relationship.
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Published Saturday 29th June 2019
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